Well what a week! We now have a family of 400+ and the positive energy on the site is awesome. We wish to welcome all our new family members and we hope you enjoy the great interactivity on site and not feel too shy to participate !
We are enjoying reading some wonderful blogs which contain some great information, perspectives, emotions and life experiences. It is proving so difficult to just choose one for the "Blog of the Week" award. Thank you to all the beautiful souls who are putting in so much effort, not only on their own personal pages ,but also by posting their thoughts on various forum topics. For those who are unsure re posting articles which are not your own work...
** Please remember to credit the person who wrote it. This is as easy as including the author's name. You may also include the source if you wish. Basically, it's good commonsense and respect for our fellow beings of light!
Our Live Chat is proving to be a wonderful tool to connect with all different members from all around the world. There is nothing like being able to connect with people who ordinarily you only see as an icon or post to represent them as on site. It is fabulous to be able to get to know you all a little better! Hopefully, as time goes on , more people will join in! It would also be great if perhaps we could schedule and official chat, whereby we announce a suitable time so everyone, if able, can have the opportunity of participating. What a wonderful opportunity to meet and interact with so many other members.
A new profile question has been added. Please take time to complete this question...it's as easy as ticking a box. The new members which have joined on Saturday will already have completed this. The question just basically asks ,that upon joining this network, are you willing to respect GSN's guidelines and Code of Ethics. We wish to continue to provide a site rich in positive energy, free from harrassment, a place to rejuvenate, grow, learn , heal...in love and light. To facilitate this we all need guidelines...
The most important thing is...do unto others as you would have them do unto you...
We as a community are open minded, here we have people from all walks of life, denominations of faith and beliefs. Tolerance and patience is part of our spiritual development and evolutionary process as spiritual beings. We are very tolerant and always ready to assist and tutor anyone who is willing to learn and grow. One of the major aims of this site is to provide a vehicle of knowledge and growth whilst creating oneness.
Many of you have taken the time to join groups which resonate with your inner selves. You are welcome to establish your own group, within the GSN community, on any topic that resonates. For these groups we ask that they are not hyperlinked to an external site or group without discussing this with Niki or myself. Without prior knowledge and arrangement, re hyperlinking, it appears to us that our network is only being used as a recruiting depot. We have a duty of care to our family to maintain a harrassment free atmosphere, one free from duress. We also owe it to our members who have taken time to join, participate and aid GSN's growth ,to maintain as many activities as possible within our community. This being said we are also in collaboration with some wonderful networks on Ning, and hope that in the near future we will be working together to offer "special" events for all our members.
***If you do experience any issues, soliciting, recruiting, harrassment, PLEASE let either Niki or myself know so we can investigate and take the relevant action. This is a family and community which has such wonderful energy, peace and light and that is how we wish to maintain it.***
Desiderata
Desiderata. Desiderata. Desiderata.Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender, Be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others - Even the dull and ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons - they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter, For always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career - However humble, it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is. Many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection, neither be cynical about love. For in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, It is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the council of the years, Gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune, But do not distress yourself with imaginings - Many fears are borne of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe. No less than the trees and the stars, you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, No doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, Keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy.
I've learned- that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
I've learned- that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned- that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
I've learned- that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.
I've learned- that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.
I've learned- that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I've learned- that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned- that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned- that you can keep going long after you can't.
I've learned- that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned- that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned- that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I've learned- that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I've learned- that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned- that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned- that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned- that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned- that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I've learned- that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned- that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned- that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.
I've learned- that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.
I've learned- that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned- that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned- that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned- that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned- that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learned- that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned- that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned- that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned- that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.
I've learned- that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I've learned- that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I've learned- that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I've learned- that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
I've learned- that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.
Get To Know Yourself
by Kimberly Fulcher
Eight Baby Steps To Knowing Your Self
Who are you? What do you stand for? What do you believe in? What engages your passion? What brings tears of gratitude and joy to your eyes? Do you know, or have you lost yourself? In my work as a professional coach, I’ve helped many people rediscover themselves. The first step on the road to rediscovery involves spending time with you, which is why I liken the process to dating yourself.
When you began dating your last partner or the person you share your life with, didn’t you move heaven and earth to make time for them? When you were with them, didn’t you go out of your way to get to know them? What if you were to take a similar approach to rediscovering yourself? Here are some “baby steps” you can take to get reacquainted with yourself.
Journal Writing -your thoughts on paper can be profound. The process of journaling can support you in learning about what you’re afraid of, what you’re passionate about, and what you aspire to.
Buy yourself a beautiful notebook, and a pen you enjoy writing with. Find 20 quiet minutes in your day, and steal away to a comfortable place in your home. Begin your process by writing as if you were talking with yourself. Write about how you’re feeling, what’s bothering or exciting you, or the day ahead of you, or answer questions from books or personal development programs you’ve been reading.
Remember that your journal can be messy and illegible. It’s for your eyes only, and doesn’t need to be presentable. Enjoy the process of establishing a connection with you through the written word.
Meditate
Meditation is not about attaining a state of emptiness while sitting in the lotus position. It’s about observing yourself in the present moment. Find 10 quiet moments in your day, and sit comfortably. Your goal should be to “empty” yourself of any anxiety or worry. Focus on your breath, and allow the thoughts that enter your mind to be there. Acknowledge them, but don’t focus on understanding what they mean, or solving any problems. Just allow yourself to be still.
Move
There are numerous studies documenting the physical and emotional benefits of moving your body. Exercise can be a meditation in and of itself. If you’re the type of person who has a really hard time slowing down, this may be a great way for you to begin committing to time to be with yourself.
Walk
Walking is a moving mediation. It allows you to slow down, and notice what’s going on around you. If you usually move a million miles per hour, walking can allow you to focus on being fully present, while indulging in the movement you find so vital. It can provide you with an opportunity to mull over something that may be on your mind, or simply to notice the beauty and bounty of what surrounds you.
Drive
Though not a common “vehicle” to self discovery, driving can prove to be an interesting process, especially if it’s difficult to find a quiet place in your home. Fill your tape or cd changer with your favorite music, and hit the road to an unknown destination. See where your “self” leads you….
Authentic Outings
A day spent wandering boutiques, a stolen hour in a bookstore, a mid-afternoon matinee, a journaling session in a coffee shop, or an afternoon being pampered at your favorite spa. These are authentic outings, and indulging in activities like these is similar to dating yourself. This is where you take time to be with you, with no purpose in mind other than sheer enjoyment.
Old Hobbies
What did you love to do when you were a small child? Did you scrapbook? Did you take dance classes, or write short stories? The authenticity of childhood interests cannot be denied. Revisit the things you used to love to do as a kid. You will be amazed at the passion within you, just waiting to be rediscovered.
New Interests
Investigate and research things you find intriguing. Do you have a friend who spends her time in ways that you envy or admire? Did you used to dream about being great at something? Did you used to wish for your family to support you in the pursuit of a special talent or interest? Give yourself the permission and the support to explore it now. Who knows where this new path could lead?
The approach you take is not important. The fact that you make the time to reconnect with yourself is. Try a little of each approach, and see what works for you. Have fun, and continually explore!
Lastly, just a reminder...those who feel drawn to teach or lead a class on any spiritual or psychic topic please contact Niki on nevgen1234@yahoo.com or alternatively leave a message on our network.
In Love and Light Aways,
Jodie and Niki
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